Same Sex Marriage

I haven't really touched this topic yet and I really think its an important subject to discuss. I am obviously for same sex marriage because I hope someday wherever I am I will get married to another female without having any problems. I saw on the news today that the Argentinan pope said "Same sex marriage is a destructive pretension against the plan of god." Now what exactly does that mean?
If god loved all his children why would he deny those who are only loving another person? Just because a higher person is saying that its bad everyone thinks it is. Or people who follow that religion. I don't have a religion. I believe in God, Jesus Christ, and the Virgin Mary. I believe they watch over me everysingle day. And I believe in Heaven and Hell. What I dont believe is that I'm going to hell for being myself. I cannot control my attraction and love for women. Its impossible to force myself to love a man. How do I know? Well i tried it for 18 years and I have never hated myself more. When I finally came out about it my family and friends were extremely supportive. It was hard after so long to just say hey this is who I am. Not many people can say that and feel good about themselves.
I have gotten in to countless amounts of fights with my mom about not believing in the church. She is so much about God ever since she got a divorce that I feel she tries to make me feel bad about it. Well guess what mom, why dont you feel bad that I cant get married in a church? You wont get to see your second daughter get married because its "against religion". Becuase God supposably doesnt love me for being gay?
Well guess what. I really dont care. I care about the fact that I want to be happy instead of pleasing everyone. I rather get married on the beach anyway. It's a lot more natural and God made it not the hands of judgemental men. And I'm so sorry if anyone reading this is getting offended because to be honest getting rude names yelled at me isnt very nice either. I have my own opinion and you certainly have yours. I remain gay and think I always will be. I believe in same sex marriage and I believe love has no gender or color. I hope someday people will get their heads out of their ass and realize whats going on here. God wants peace and love right? So why are you hating?