Divinity

This next blog is solely dedicated to those whom believe they have to be a certain way to be loved.
First things first my name is Amanda and I believe that women and men have a role to play in this world and that is to love themselves fully without any conditions. Love yourself unconditionally because no one else will until you do so first. You can't love someone else if you don't love yourself. I completely understand why people feel they have to live up to others standards. I did so all my life and continue to do so. Why? Because we live in a world where we are convinced that perfection does exist even if we all know it does not. We strive to be like others that are rich and famous, instead of trying to be ourselves we look up to others who at times aren't the most influential people.
I am not here to disrespect anyone in particular but I am here to say that the media is full of shit. We have focused our lives solely on what we watch others do because face it, this world is ran by technology and social media. You don't meet someone at a library anymore, you meet them at the club because the first thing you did was stalk their social networks. We look for answers about ourselves in other people. Our friends, family, partners, and especially those who have a voice on the media. Instead of finding ones inner self we try to be like others, and this generation is supposed to be know as "unique". No we are far from that goal because even though we have made a difference we are still the sheep following all the others because if you stray away you are known as "different" and "weird." In my opinion, those things are not bad at all. Everyone I meet says I'm a bit weird but I'm glad they'll remember me from my strangeness. I will have a spot in their memory as someone that taught them something, and that is to be different and be proud of it.
Back to the main subject. BE YOURSELF. No one else will do that for you because there is no one just like you. It does not matter if you are skinny, fat, short, tall, pretty, or ugly. Those who do not pay attention to their physical attributes pay attention to their personality. They pay attention to the things that matter and that is to leave an impression on the world, help the world become a better place not a
"prettier" place. Looks fade but your character is always there. It's truly a sad thing to see how far we have come but with every step forward, we take three steps back. We continue to degrade people and act as if one sole accomplishment can erase all the negativity we still bring.
I may not be an inspirational person that stands up for everyone because I am still trying to stand up for myself as a person. But the progress of knowing that I deserve better and that I am human and I deserve respect is a bigger step than most. I am so thankful and grateful for those men and women who stand up for themselves and everyone around them. You guys are the real heroes of this age because we will not come to peace with each other until we learn to accept each others lifestyles. We may not agree with it but sometimes the first step to such things is acceptance. If we can accept others and let them live their lives we will be at peace with ourselves.
Don't try to change someone, you will fail miserably. We will fail by trying to change the whole world. Instead we should let everyone bring their own characteristics to the tables and let the true meaning of "uniqueness" begin. We all live in a world of insecurities and hatred, wanting to be someone else because they have more, are more. You are enough to this world. Always believe that because no one will you see your worth but yourself. You have the chance to make something bigger than yourself, always attempt to be a better person than you were yesterday. Don't challenge others, but challenge yourself. Do things that scare you so you don't have the regret of not trying.
Well it's a little scattered, but always remember that you're special in your own way. No one is like you and that's already an accomplishment. Make this cold hearted world see what you have to offer. Stand up for yourself and stand up for others if the situation arises. You might just save someones life with just a word. You're all such beautiful people. You have the ability to speak up, so make a difference and be outstanding. Don't miss your opportunity.
"Ghandi once said that whatever you do in life will be insignificant, but it's very important that you do it because nobody else will.
I know this won't change the world but I hope that my words can change your day, your week, or even your life. And if you're reading this and I don't know you, well I love you. Because everyone deserves to be loved.
Thank you.